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Wild Muse – Stevie Nicks

“Oh, mirror in the sky What is love? Can the child within my heart rise above? Can I sail through the changin’ ocean tides? Can I handle the seasons of my life?” ~ Stevie Nicks, Landslide *** My bio on my About page starts off with this line: “The only child of Stevie Nicks + […]

Lipstick and a book.

When I was in my mid teens I read somewhere that you should “always wear badly applied lipstick and carry an obscure book”. I can’t remember where I read it exactly. Probably in an issue of Sassy Magazine but either way I never forgot it. Great advice though. 30 some years later and that quote […]

“Forgive me father. I have sinned…”

Welcome back to Sex, Love ‘n Rock ‘n Roll. Easter weekend has just passed and I feel like it is time for confession. Forgive me father. I have sinned. It’s been a while since my last confession. I swore I would never. I took vows. I said it publicly and started a revolution. I LOATHE […]

Venus in a clam shell

“Lighting new cigarettes, pouring more drinks. It has been a beautiful fight. Still is.  ~ Charles Bukowski I was three and a half months out of a 10 year relationship. Heavier than I have ever been. More than slightly unsure of myself and feeling oh so vulnerable about navigating a whole new world of dating and […]


“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.” ~ Barbara Bush I am online dating. That sentence can pretty much stand alone if you have experienced this phenomenon in real life. It is complete and total comedy. So […]

I’m not single, I am a rock star

“I’m not single, I am a rock star.” (welcome to my boudoir) Finding myself single at 47 was a shock. There are a lot of ways I could have gone with this new status, my history being one of bitter and hard, but that is not a good look on me. I have worn that […]

Fuck it. Let’s eat cake.

“Walk tall, kick ass, learn to speak Arabic, love music and never forget you come from a long line of truth seekers, lovers and warriors.” ~ Hunter S. Thompson This love letter usually contains a revelation around my evolution but this week  More will be revealed once I pick myself up off the floor but […]

White Palace

“You better be careful with words like that. Words like that could kill a person if you don’t mean it.” ~ Nora Baker Movie Summary: James Spader is Max Baron, an OCD white collar, rich, successful, Jewish 27 year old who lost his wife in a car accident. He is a “good boy” who does […]


Yesterday we took our little cat Phoebe to the vet. Little as in she is only 7 pounds. Not at all little in age, attitude or delusion. This is noteworthy because she is 17 and in the 16+ years I have had her she has only been once. A loooong time ago when she lost […]

I have a crush on you

On Saturday I sent my friend Niki a photo of Nic Cage. Why? Because I know she has a crush on him. She first loved him in Valley Girl and she claims love like that only happens in the ’80s. He remains on her list because of – and I quote – “his unabashed overacting […]

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