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Wild heart. Tender soul.

“Such wounds to the heart will probably never heal. But we cannot simply sit and stare at our wounds forever. We must stand up and move onto the next action.” ~ Haruki Murakami **** I tell my truth. As you have probably gathered if you read my Sunday Sin love letters, or connect with me […]

Bastard Saints

“Music has always been a matter of Energy to me, a question of Fuel. Sentimental people call it Inspiration, but what they really mean is Fuel. I have always needed Fuel. I am a serious consumer. On some nights I still believe that a car with the gas needle on empty can run about fifty […]

I should be hanging from a charm bracelet

“Sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem.” ~ Jonathan Mead In one of my Sunday Sin newsletters I told the Wild Ones about a musician I dated briefly who said “since we are getting things out in the open and you want honesty, I am usually more attracted to […]

The Cocktus

“Now go to bed you crazy night owl! You have to be at NASA early in the morning. So they can look for your penis with the Hubble telescope.” ~ Tina Fey   Welcome back to Sex, love and rock n’ roll. I am dating. Well, I am trying to date. I am not gonna […]

“Forgive me father. I have sinned…”

Welcome back to Sex, Love ‘n Rock ‘n Roll. Easter weekend has just passed and I feel like it is time for confession. Forgive me father. I have sinned. It’s been a while since my last confession. I swore I would never. I took vows. I said it publicly and started a revolution. I LOATHE […]

Venus in a clam shell

“Lighting new cigarettes, pouring more drinks. It has been a beautiful fight. Still is.  ~ Charles Bukowski I was three and a half months out of a 10 year relationship. Heavier than I have ever been. More than slightly unsure of myself and feeling oh so vulnerable about navigating a whole new world of dating and […]

Profile Photos

Welcome back to Sex, Love ‘n Rock ‘n Roll. The comedy that is my life at 48, online dating. Lord have mercy. You cannot make this stuff up but it feeds my litmus test of laughter almost as much as cat videos. Here we go….. In online dating you only have three things going for […]


“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.” ~ Barbara Bush I am online dating. That sentence can pretty much stand alone if you have experienced this phenomenon in real life. It is complete and total comedy. So […]

It’s over and it begins.

St. Gerard. The Patron saint of mothers and children. He performs miracles and he came home with me on Saturday. “What I dig about St. Gerard is his connection with the Baron in Vodou. And the Baron is a handful. <grin>” ~ from my friend Fabeku when I posted this photo.Interesting because I am also […]

Fumbling Toward Ecstasy

“…I want to unfold. I don’t want to stay folded anywhere, because where I am folded, there I am a lie.” ~ Rainer Maria Rilke Things to do when you have writer’s block. ~ Watch many episodes of Californication. Have naughty dreams about Hank Moody. Channel him and try to write. Write stories about sex […]

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