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The Candy Store.

“I said to myself, I have things in my head that are not like what anyone has taught me – shapes and ideas so near to me – so natural to my way of being and thinking that it hasn’t occurred to me to put them down. I decided to start anew, to strip away […]

Wild Muse – Stevie Nicks

“Oh, mirror in the sky What is love? Can the child within my heart rise above? Can I sail through the changin’ ocean tides? Can I handle the seasons of my life?” ~ Stevie Nicks, Landslide *** My bio on my About page starts off with this line: “The only child of Stevie Nicks + […]

Bastard Saints

“Music has always been a matter of Energy to me, a question of Fuel. Sentimental people call it Inspiration, but what they really mean is Fuel. I have always needed Fuel. I am a serious consumer. On some nights I still believe that a car with the gas needle on empty can run about fifty […]

Squirrel in a spacesuit….

“Houston. We have a problem.” *** Last week Bill Paxton died and I was sad. To honour him I am re-watching all his movies that I love so much. I started with Apollo 13. If you haven’t seen it please watch it immediately. It is based on a true story of three American astronauts who […]

The Cocktus

“Now go to bed you crazy night owl! You have to be at NASA early in the morning. So they can look for your penis with the Hubble telescope.” ~ Tina Fey   Welcome back to Sex, love and rock n’ roll. I am dating. Well, I am trying to date. I am not gonna […]

Profile Photos

Welcome back to Sex, Love ‘n Rock ‘n Roll. The comedy that is my life at 48, online dating. Lord have mercy. You cannot make this stuff up but it feeds my litmus test of laughter almost as much as cat videos. Here we go….. In online dating you only have three things going for […]


“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.” ~ Barbara Bush I am online dating. That sentence can pretty much stand alone if you have experienced this phenomenon in real life. It is complete and total comedy. So […]

Fumbling Toward Ecstasy

“…I want to unfold. I don’t want to stay folded anywhere, because where I am folded, there I am a lie.” ~ Rainer Maria Rilke Things to do when you have writer’s block. ~ Watch many episodes of Californication. Have naughty dreams about Hank Moody. Channel him and try to write. Write stories about sex […]

Live Ridiculously

“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” ~ Marilyn Monroe This photo made me spit my coffee out laughing. I love the savagery coupled with the touching sentiment. So funny. It made me think about my ridiculous humour today. I come from a family of unintentional, […]

What do you love?

“Find what you love and let it kill you.” ~ Charles Bukowski I love this photo. Cat kisses. Beards. Tattoos. Tenderness. Love. Oh my. What do you love? I ask my clients that in our first session and I get them to start noticing and start a list. Because when you know what you love […]

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